Whose Side Is God On?

Whose Side Is God On?

We always had an opponent, someone to fight against. There was always an enemy threatening to dominate us. It wasn’t hard to recognize them. We knew who they were by the colors they wore. And if they got close we’d stomp and yell with our fists in the air till our...
Can a Pastor Ever Just Be a Person?

Can a Pastor Ever Just Be a Person?

There’s a kind of unspoken phenomenon we’ve experienced and we’ve seen it with others, particularly pastors, and it’s this: They rarely, if ever, take off their ministry hats…not on Christmas or at a funeral or a car wash, not with friends, relatives or...
I Feel You

I Feel You

For years I (Caron) tried to get David to understand me. At times, I ached for him to comprehend the trauma and sadness of my childhood and how it affected me as an adult. I told him my stories. And he listened attentively with as much empathy as he was capable of...
I’m Not In Denial

I’m Not In Denial

We are all in some kind of denial about important parts of ourselves and, sometimes, if we’re lucky, we get a wakeup call. Ever said something like … I’m not late all the time. Just because I held back information doesn’t mean I’m deceitful.  I’m not defensive....

Episode 67- How To Forgive Yourself For Past Failures

In this podcast Episode, David & Caron Loveless discuss how to forgive yourself when you’ve done something that has been destructive to yourself or to others. Maybe you’re wondering: “Is it even necessary to forgive yourself… especially if you think that God and...

How To Practice The Ultimate Prayer Of Confession

Recently we got re-acquainted with what we consider to be the ultimate prayer of confession. In the past several weeks, we’ve written a series of articles on forgiveness. So we wanted to give you a powerful prayer that speaks to forgiving yourself, forgiving others,...

Fresh Ways To Love Like Jesus

This summer, we’re all going to have some brand new opportunities- to love… and to love well. Here is some quick help: We know that God is all about relationships. To prove this, every single thing Jesus ever taught, according to him, can be summed up in...

Podcast Episode 65- Good Sex

In this podcast Episode, David & Caron Loveless discuss the value and practices of good sex in marriage. Our culture is obsessed with success and sex but it knows nothing about how to cherish a spouse in an intimate relationship. Cultivating a good sex life...

Podcast Episode 56- How To Grow Receptive When You Feel Most Resistant

In this podcast Episode, David & Caron Loveless discuss how to grow receptive when you feel most resistant, to what is happening to you, to others, or in your circumstances. Someone has said, “What we resist persists.” Resistance is a pretty good sign...

Podcast Episode 49- Interview w/ Paul Young: Lies We Believe About God- P 1

In our interview today, David Loveless talks with Paul Young. He is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The Shack, Cross Roads, and Eve, and the Lies we Believe about God.  His books have sold more than 24 million copies worldwide. A major motion picture of...

5 Ways To A Meaningful Christmas Day

Here are 5 quick and easy ways you can use, as you move toward having a meaningful Christmas day… no matter what the circumstances of your life. The Christmas season can distract us all from what we most truly want. So, we’ve learned it helps to have a simple...

Thought For Today

Rethink your need for control today. Notice if it’s getting in the way of loving people that show up in your thoughts or on your calendar.

10 Traits of Healthy Leadership

While there are no perfect leaders, here are ten qualities we see time and again in leaders of healthy teams, businesses, and churches. 1) They Invite Feedback Healthy leaders are able to welcome observation and feedback from those they lead without feeling personally...








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